Friday, 20 April 2012

LOVE IN CAMPUS


TITLE : LOVE IN CAMPUS

REASON : Our group has chosen this title because nowadays we can see that many university students  are making love whether  they fall in love after comes to university or before that.

PURPOSE :  The purpose of this title is we want to show that there many effects love in campus . We want to show the advantages and disadvantages of love in campus. We will include the pictures and videos that will make students know what is the best choice to make decision in their study life whether they want to study while find the suitable couple or after they finished their study.

SHORT DESCRIPTION : Love relationship and academic activities in the campus should compliment each other for success in your life. Thus, there should never be a divergence in your love relationships and your studies. Love relationships ought to serve as an inspirational tools for students to excel in their academic pursuits and general success in life. A relationship must have the power to motivate students to persist, achieve, and succeed academically and otherwise; because only by doing so can relationships truly flourish and be meaningful in the campuses of our universities.

       In many cases, students get very enticed in getting the best grades in their courses and forget their love relationships with their fellow students. They unconsciously neglect this aspect of life, forgetting that getting good grades should also be fun in a way. On the other hand, some of the students do not even care about what marks or grades they get in the school, because they think that their interactions with other students are more important than their academic grades. If you truly want to succeed in life, you need to find a balance between your academics and social life.

      Of course, a balanced life means a happy life. So, if you want to be happy, you ought to be balanced in everything that you do; that is why it is important to know some tips or strategies for a balanced relationship and academics in our campuses; and therefore achieve a happier and more fulfilled life. Read below the two tips that can help you combine your academics and social life in the course of your studies in the university.

    1. Organize Your Time Very Well: You should organize your study time and social time to spend with your fellow students and friends. Have an schedules or agenda and make sure you communicate your schedules to your partner (girlfriend or boyfriend) after finishing your important academic work. These two always go together. This is because your studies can be tedious in most cases and will require additional efforts daily to deny you of some social aspect of life. So, use your time wisely and accept that you have limited time to be together, and that you will just have to make the most out of it.

2. Helpful and Healthy Interactions: Combining your academic work and social life is very important especially where deep love relationship is involved. To ensure that you are not weighed down by combining both academic and social life is to find some good time to study together especially where your fields of studies are related. By doing this, two of you will feel each other relationally and academically at the same time. This implies that you share your lives with each other and talk about the most important things in your lives in your studies and in your love relationship. In this way, two of you are always together, benefiting from intimacy and education, and the same time time building an everlasting stronger relationship for your life success in general. With this, neither your academic nor your social life will suffer.

    Conclusively, it is challenging to combine and balance your academic and love relationship in the campus. To reduce the pressure accompanying it, you have to ensure that you set aside good time with your partner (boyfriend or girlfriend). Also, with helpful and healthy interaction towards the common goals of each other, you will realize that really it is your desire to share life with each other both academically and socially. So, in summary, to effectively combine and balance your academic and social life in the campus, you should organize your time very well, initiate helpful/healthy communications that will bring about academic and social support, understanding, and respect for your love desires and academic needs.





19 comments:

  1. (ahmad zakirin ahmad)we must study first,after study we can love or married.so, as a student we must concentrate for our study.

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    1. Im disagreed with you. I think it does'nt matter if THOSE who are falling in love nowadays. I think it is enough they know how to separate the time and he knows how good pairing. the pairs sometimes also make them more focused studies as the spouse as competition.(NADHIRAH)

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  2. (ALI) i agree.but if we can manage our emotion and time, the topic love in campus will not be the issue.it not be a problem. As student, our emotion so important.we still young and easy get the bad emotion. My advice is we study first.

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  3. I think there is no problem to learn while dating. if the couple is able to divide the time to learn. education should be emphasized that there were times in the spirit of love and carrier problems for students. even though our love was not yet confirmed as a couple. so it is a sin if doing evil when in love. in my opinion, do not have to love while studying, if you are able to marry.
    (mubin)

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  4. (farahin)i'm the one who involve love in campus.For me,it's wonderful experience in my life..actually it's guide me to study hard and we are always fight to get highers pointer...:p

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    1. I like your HONESTY :) for me, it is depends on the students. if they know how to manage and guide us to study hard, it does'nt matter. most people only can talk that STUDY FIRST AND NOT THINKING ABOUT LOVE. but they dont! by the way, later married do not forget to invite! :) (NADHIRAH)

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  5. (NURATIKAH NAJIHAH) fell in love on the campus was not unusual. it has become a habit, especially among the IPTA / IPTS. although no experience but we can see our colleagues involved in the love of this campus. there are advantages and disadvantages in this case. there is a distinct advantage that can assist their partners in student learning with and obtain the best results together. will be da bad as a broken heart, sack or punish yourself and give rise to many problems.

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  6. (NURATIKAH NAJIHAH) thanks a lot for our team member, nizar, firdaus and farahin for our presentation... i proud to be the dst project.... thanks a lot for firdaus and nizar, many idea and design from you...

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  7. beware of felt in love at campus...i means 'couple' who are Muslim you should avoid this feeling because from that it will start to the worst things in your life like any sexual act outside of marriage...common things that couples do is spending time together...at day they will studying together, at night they will have a dinner(sit eye-to-eye )and go some place to do revision together until 2 a.m...do you think you can fight that bad desire...the story of Adam and Hawa already teach us to avoid to couple...BUT Islam thought us that there are the solution likes usual marriage(kahwin) or hanging marriage(nikah gantung)...my opinion ,the best way to replace couples to good way and based on student condition is hanging marriage...many of us did not know about this so they will think couples is right until they not do bad things...its totally wrong if you follow and study about Islam...come on guys you should not influenced by western culture!! (AIZUL)

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  8. It is difficult for us to get students really do not have a pair on this campus. for me, not one for those who want a pair but really should be prepared and prior consent of the family. Cases and current issues that often we hear every day is worrying. but if a pair on the way and have good intentions, not one, but for those not willing to like me, better forget and focus on my studies first.(NADHIRAH )

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  9. yes..i agree with you...we should know the main purpose as being student...i want to ask for those who are in couples...with what your treat when you have a candlelight dinner or shopping together...do you use money from your parents or you use the PTPTN money to show your careness and love to your partner...are not you shame of that?? your parent sacrified a lot to gives money to you but you do not appreciate it...tell me who are in couple did not use money to show love to their partner moreover nowadays girls are materialistic...(INSANI)

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  10. syafiq>i like about this topic although i not couple or in a relationship with someone now.But i not agree with statement that couple use a parent money or PTPTN. Not all student couple and use a money everyday,sometimes they just meet each other to release their tensin or something else.I think couple is not a problem to the student if they can handle it suitable with their status as a student

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  11. hasfa> i agree with syafiq..no problem to love in campus but make sure student not ignore the lessons. Students must satisfy the prior studies compared with their romantic. If student can do that so,I think no problem if student want to couple..

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  12. (farahin)hahahha...thankz nadhirah for your support..of course i will invite you for my 'wedding' soon. hahah..hope this love just not a 'monkey love'...ahakzzz....

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  13. (farahin)mind your word INSANI! i'm totally disagree with you! Are you think all of couple in campus do like your word?? you think the couple use their parents money to treat their partner?? how about if they have own money??how about if them just do like SHAFIQ said? Why you must see just for the money?? Aduiiiii......

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  14. I disagree because for me, love in campus will only add stress and a waste of time. in addition, i think dont have interest when we love in campus because we still don't have any jobs and we come to this campus is to learn. so use the time available to study hard because when we managed to get a first class degree, it is more blessed than feelings of love.(nur zarra zaila)

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  15. wahhh ..... a very interesting story because it is most popular among students, I agree when dating on campus has its advantages and disadvantages. actually not in love while studying only one we have very little time and not become the default with evil things. But love can also cause problems during which we will not be close friends because we are closer to our spouse, such as hand phone is a message to ignore the people around it also became a problem socializing with friends.( siti zulaikha binti baki)

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    1. wow...this topic so hot...many opinion i can read in this topic...some of you support and some of you protest but i think fall in love in campus not to fault if we can good manage a study time ---> just my opinion ( Noor Shazana bt Sahadan)

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  16. zul fadly> like this topic..love in campus can happens to most students..people who say this can affect the performance of students kademik but for me it depends on the students themselves..if students can maintain their academic performance why do not they continue their love..

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